This too will pass

I've come to believe that this is the week when 'good enough' trumps perfect.

When a shared cup of tea and a proper laugh taste better even than an 11 ingredient Jamie mince pie.

The most important thing to remember, I think, is that other people's feelings are probably frazzled too.

It's the season to get up early and first. It may be the only time you have to think your own thoughts. 

Stand and breath outside, even if only for a few minutes. Cast your emotional anchor.

By the time others arise, you'll care less about the state of the living room carpet.
Squashed clementines smell quite festive. Nicer than many candles.

Find your moments.

I've come to believe that friends in sparsely-populated households often appreciate a planned (is it a good time to call?) 15-minute phone call more than another scarf. 

Old photos are great too. Dig out one that shows a moment you'd forgotten existed and slip it into a card.

Remember your good fortune. Don't spend time queueing for things you don't need.
Smile.